Paul Okoye, popularly known as Rudeboy, a member of the renowned music duo P-Square, has advised men to focus on achieving financial stability before entering into a committed relationship or marriage. Rudeboy expressed his concerns about the growing pressure on men to prove their financial security before settling down.
On his Instagram account, Rudeboy wrote, “The rate at which they keep saying men must be this financially, money bla bla bla before getting married or into a relationship is alarming.” He encouraged men to “change the narrative” and strive for financial independence, suggesting that they seek partners who are also financially stable.
Rudeboy emphasized that financial stability is a goal that everyone, regardless of gender, should work towards. He wrote, “Dear kings, change the narrative, chase money, make money, and look for a rich girl. Make everybody go hustle.”
Rudeboy’s message has sparked a conversation about the expectations placed on men when it comes to financial security and relationships.