“Having More Than One Partner Before Courtship Can Provide Clarity” – Pastor Elvis Agyemang

Pastor Elvis Agyemang, founder of Grace Mountain Ministries, has ignited discussion with his unconventional perspective on dating. In a recent sermon, Pastor Agyemang suggested that it is acceptable to date multiple individuals simultaneously if the relationship has not yet progressed to the stage of courtship.

Pastor Agyemang articulated that engaging with several potential partners before entering a committed relationship allows individuals to better understand their preferences and options. He argued that many people rush into relationships prematurely, which can often lead to emotional distress. “Having more than one partner before courtship can provide clarity in making the right choice,” he stated.

However, the pastor was clear that once a relationship evolves into courtship—a phase considered a precursor to marriage—the commitment should be exclusive. He cautioned that continuing to date other people during courtship would be regarded as “inappropriate and dishonourable.”

The pastor’s comments have generated considerable debate. Supporters argue that dating multiple people can prevent premature commitments and potential regret, while critics contend that even casual dating should be approached with a sense of loyalty.