- Coach Yeboah says Orgasm is not a man's responsibility in a relationship
- Lovemaking, not sex, is the key to happiness and wellbeing
- Connection, vulnerability, and self-reflection are crucial for true happiness
Scofray Nana Yaw Yeboah, a transformational coach and mBIT trainer, appeared on Joy Prime’s Prime Morning show on Tuesday, August 27, 2024, to discuss the science of happiness. During the interview, he shed light on the often-misunderstood topic of orgasm in relationships.
According to Yeboah, a woman’s orgasm during sex is not the responsibility of her male partner. Instead, it is a fundamental aspect of the connection between two individuals. “Orgasm writes on the chemical oxytocin and serotonin, which is the heart. But sex can just be heady; an activity. So the question is, what you’re doing, is your heart involved?” he explained.
Yeboah emphasized that lovemaking, not just sex, is key to happiness and wellbeing. “It’s not the act; it’s the art and act that make lovemaking. But because we want the happiness up here, we’re more consumed with the act.”
He also clarified that a man’s ejaculation is not equivalent to his orgasm stage, and that a woman’s orgasm is not the duty of her male partner. Rather, it is the connection and vulnerability between two individuals that leads to true orgasm.
The life coach stressed the importance of individual surroundings and daily activities, including food, water, people, and sexual partners, in determining overall happiness. He also noted that orgasm can be achieved without sexual intimacy, thanks to the vagus nerve.
Finally, Yeboah urged viewers to prioritize “Me Time” each day, coordinating their moments to cultivate happiness and reduce stress. “It’s not fidgeting with your phone, watching a movie. It’s coordinating every moment for you. Just do that for 3 minutes before you start your day,” he advised.
